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Christmas Elopement In Pittsburgh

Thinking of having a small, affordable wedding and looking to elope at the Allegheny County Courthouse? What could be better than a Christmas time elopement in a beautiful city like Pittsburgh full of magical holiday events and pop ups? Make it even more magical with a couple that’s only seen snow once, are huge Pittsburgh sports fans, and have the best weekend ever planned for their holiday wedding vacay!

With me being a photographer and my husband being a pastor, the courthouse is always a favorite for both of us for low-stress but still beautiful wedding ceremonies and photos. The Christmas decor at the grand staircase makes it even more special! This sweet couple flew in from Texas for their Pittsburgh nuptials, and I’m thrilled to have worked with them to help their day so easy and memorable.

Preparing for your ELOPEMENT

Applying for a license is a pretty easy and straightforward process on the Courthouse’s website. They will schedule a zoom call with you to go over specifics. The morning of the wedding the bride and groom picked up their bouquet at a local florist, picked up their marriage license, and walked right next door to the courthouse grand staircase to make it official! To prepare for photos and officiating with us, we do a zoom call too to meet you and discuss photo location options and to talk about any personal touches you want in your ceremony message and vows.

There’s never a ton of people around so your ceremony will still feel private. After the sweet and meaningful ceremony we did some photos in the beautiful courthouse, outside in the courtyard, then at some elegant and very Pittsburgh-y locations to really capture the magic of the city!

With traditional wedding costs on the rise, its becoming more and more popular to elope and have a more casual party with friends and family at another time. The Allegheny County Courthouse definitely makes it easy and elegant, not to mention finding a photographer/officiant team to help tie it all together!

6 Hour Wedding Timeline Example

Looking to be efficient with your wedding photography budget and weighing if 6 hours of photography coverage is enough? In this post I’ll walk you through a 6 hour wedding day timeline and outline things that must be considered in order to have everything on your wedding day captured in 6 hours without feeling rushed!

Example 6 Hour Wedding Timeline Template

Venue: SanaView Farms

3:00 - photographer arrives and captures detail photos
3:30 - bride gets dressed / bridal portraits

3:50 - first look with family
4:00 - groom gets dressed / groom portraits
4:30 - ceremony
4:45 - family photos/ cocktail hour
5:15 - bridal party photos
5:30 - bride and groom photos
6:00 - grand entrance
First dance
Parent dances
Cake cutting
Toasts
6:30 - dinner
7:15 - dancing
8:45 - sunset photos
9:00 - photographer departs / sparkler photo

This timeline was from a mid-July wedding that I photographed by myself - yes, it can be done! There are obviously some trade-offs and concessions that have to be made in order to have everything work. Things like having a small bridal party and not minding about having minimal prep photos were definitely helpful. I tell couples that when they are planning their coverage, we can either pair it down by taking time off of the beginning prep shots or the end dancing photos. Luckily this couple was happy to work with just a few of the important prep shots to save time for the fun at the end of the day!

It’s also very helpful having a smaller bridal for that small window for prep shots. Hair and makeup must be done ad gone by the time the photographer arrives and everyone ready to jump into their wedding outfits!

Perhaps the three most crucial elements, however, for having a 6 hour timeline are the following:

All - inclusive venue

If you’re doing shorter photography coverage, an all-inclusive venue, meaning a place where you can have both the ceremony and reception, is a MUST. Not only does travel time take up valuable time, but getting everyone packed up and out the door takes much more time than you think, which invites lots of opportunities to run late or have to hold things up because you’re waiting on one person in the wedding party to arrive. If you want to include prep shots in your 6 hours as well, having EVERYONE in the bridal party getting ready at the venue is also a must. If you’re shopping for a venue, it’s is a BIG selling point if they can accommodate both sides of the wedding party, the ceremony, and the reception all in the same walkable location.

Later ceremony time

Venues that shut down at 9pm because of residential noise ordinances will often push couples to have ceremonies that start at 2 or 3pm in order to still have a 4 hour reception, but if you’re looking for the most complete photography coverage that will include prep photos, you have to push your ceremony later to 4 or even 5pm. This gives the photographer enough time to get in the prep and detail shots before the wedding, and also have coverage extend past dinner into dancing!

consider the season for outdoor portraits

If you are having your ceremony outdoors or want your photos outdoors, you have to consider the season and when the sun goes down. The example timeline above was from a wedding in mid-July when the days were at their longest and the sun was up until past 8:30pm. If you’re having a fall wedding and the sun sets around 7, you’ll have to accept doing a first-look to get your outdoor portraits done before the ceremony (and thus lose dancing coverage).

If you’re considering a 6 hour wedding photography timeline for your big day, it is definitely achievable by following the septs outlined above. This wedding described in the post was easily one of the most relaxed, enjoyable weddings of my career, and not because of any plan we created, but because the couple CHOSE to be relaxed, trusting, and fully present for their friends and family.

Lingrow Farm Wedding Reception - Maddy and Mitch

Maddy and Mitch had such a beautiful day full of memorable moments and all of their favorite people and friends! This particular wedding, too, shows that you CAN in fact get married at the location that’s important to you and find time to travel on your wedding day to the reception venue of your dreams. The 9 hour timeline ensured that there was enough time to get all of the things on the wishlist, including prep shots, a “first touch”, a full Catholic mass, 45 minutes of travel, family photos, portraits, detail shots, large group shots, table shots, sunset photos, dancing photos, and a sparkler exit!

wedding timeline with travel

If you are wanting to create your best day ever around a bit of travel, the best way to approach it is with a convo with your photographer and adding on some extra time to the photo package JUST for the travel portion. A typical wedding timeline needs about 2 hours before the ceremony to get prep shots, and 2 hours after the ceremony for family photos, bridal party portraits, bride and groom portraits, a quick restroom break, and bustling the dress before grand introductions. Having time APART from all of that for travel ensures the smoothest possible day and adequate time to fit in everything photo-wise.

Many other things can affect the timeline as well including having a second photographer, doing a first look where you and your fiance see each other and get photos before the ceremony, the time of year for sunset and sparkler photos, and so much more. This is why an experienced photographer is invaluable - we’ve seen it all and can shift the pieces to make YOUR timeline exactly what you want it to be!

I started the day at Maddy’s beautiful house when hair and makeup were finishing up and snapped some sweet moments with the bridesmaids in their matching robes, then headed over to the church to see Mitch arrive in his beautifully restored classic car! After a sweet “first touch” in the stairwell to help calm some nerves, the beautiful Catholic mass started, complete with the most well-timed thunder and rain that was nice enough to finish before we had to leave!

I love doing family photos in beautiful churches, and St. Barbara’s was as stunning of a backdrop as anything else! After the family photos we got more beautiful shots with the bride and groom and the classic car, even recreating a photo from their grandparents’ wedding day!

Once we all arrive at the gorgeous Lingrow I got some lightening-fast detail shots as guests arrived for cocktail hour downstairs. Soon the bridal party was ready to go and we did a few fun group photos, individual photos, and beautiful bride and groom portraits that showcased the best features and view of the gorgeous venue.

Guests were dazzled by a dance completely choreographed by the bride, and we were able to get a massive group photo of all 175+ guests packing the dance floor to kick off the party! Even though the day was hot and humid, Maddy and Mitch were so incredibly sweet and kind enough to go back outside at sunset to get one last epic shot with a cotton-candy sky and, of course, the car!

We wrapped up the full day with a beautiful sparkler exit and some more expert twirls to cap off Mitch and Maddy’s happily ever after!

Thank you to these wonderful vendors who truly were a force on this very full day!

Venue: Lingrow Farm

Coordinator: Leah Frey

DJ: Royal Heir DJ

Cake: The BRIDE!!!

Florals: Bride and mom!

HMUA: Sanctus Spa and Salon

Home Farm Barn Indiana PA Wedding Venue

The Home Farm Barn is a great choice for a wedding venue if you’re looking for a barn venue that’s not too rustic and has beautiful spots for portraits. Every inch of the barn is beautiful and elevated, from its modern neutral color scheme to its beautiful glass gallery room on the bottom floor.

Nick and Rachel started their wedding day at the Home Farm Barn by getting ready in the downstairs Tack Room, a small room that can accommodate bridesmaids getting their hair and makeup done or that can function as a holding place for groomsmen until ceremony time. With its countertops, natural light, and full mirrors, it has everything you need for your finishing touches.

wedding venues with rain plans

This particular wedding had their ceremony inside of the bottom level of the barn, known as the glass gallery. This is a great option if rain is in the forecast for your wedding day since it is still beautiful and spacious enough for all of your guests to sit comfortably. Cocktail hour can easily be held in the reminder of the bottom floor of the barn since the dining is upstairs and the glass gallery’s sliding doors separate it into its own room. The industrial kitchen on this bottom floor also make it easy for caterers to keep food hot and cake cool.

With the option to add on the Just Hitched bar trailer that can be parked INSIDE the bottom floor for your cocktail hour, there is all the convenience and none of the down time having to flip spaces from one part of the day to the next.

barn wedding venues with outdoor ceremony

The outdoor patio just off of the glass gallery is a fantastic choice for your ceremony if the weather is cooperating, and also makes a beautiful, clean, neutral spot for group photos overlooking the property’s beautiful willow trees. Guests can also enjoy the tire swing and space for lawn games.

The main barn upstairs is accessed by a beautiful wide timber staircase, making for dramatic grand entrances that are photographer friendly and don’t require your bridal party to awkwardly wait outside of a set of closed barn doors like at other barn venues. The dance floor will also be tastefully decorated with twinkle lights and large hanging hoops that can hold greenery or other decor.

wedding venues with transportation

At the end of the night, Home Farm Barn’s trolley service will make sure that your guests get back to their hotel (there are 2 great hotel options less than 10 minutes from the venue) and also make for lovely photo ops. The venue does require that guests ride the trolley to maximize the efficiency of parking at the venue.

This couple featured below wanted to end the night with a sparkler send off, and again the beautiful exterior of the barn provides a great backdrop and the outside lighting helps make the photo even more successful.

 
 
Wedding Venues that hold 350 guests near Pittsburgh

Chestnut Ridge Golf Resort Weddings

Chestnut Ridge is one of the biggest, most upscale wedding venues outside of Pittsburgh. The ballroom can hold 350 guests, and the on-site amenities make it extremely convenient for you and your guests. The wedding featured below utilized the getting ready room downstairs, the on-site salon, a separate space for their ceremony, in-house catering, and a late-night pizza bar.

We started the day with the women getting ready in the downstairs conference room which had plenty of natural light for hair and makeup. Some of the members of the bridal party even got their hair done at the salon in the downstairs floor of the resort. The men got ready at the neighboring hotel, the Hampton Inn, which made for a very convenient option for guests as well since it is in the same complex as the resort.

The ceremony took place in an upstairs ballroom which neighbored the beautiful reception hall, separated by room dividers but still boasting the beautiful view of the mountains out of the window!

When it comes time for portraits, the resort is happy to lend you golf carts for your entire bridal party and will escort you around the course for all of your photos.

Chesnut Ridge is wonderful at setting up a seamless buffet experience in the room adjacent to your reception, and the food is always fantastic. They also have a wonderful and spacious display for cookies right in the main ballroom.

Guests always have a great time on the ample dance floor - there’s plenty of room to hold even the largest guests lists without having to tear down tables on the dance floor or fight your way through chairs to move around the room.

Hope you can find some inspiration for your Chest Ridge wedding!

 
 
Money Saving Tips for Weddings
 
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Weddings are one of the most expensive things you will encounter in your life, but as wedding culture evolves, so do ways to make your wedding more unique AND more cost effective. COVID undoubtedly turned the world upside down, but some of the practices that we adopted to have safe, outdoor weddings have impacted wedding trends and are sticking around for a long time. Some of these changes can even be used to save you money, and definitely have made more non-traditional weddings more popular, which means you can feel more free than ever to plan the wedding that YOU want!

Wedding changes thanks to covid

  • Friday and Sunday dates: a lot of venues now offer Friday and Sunday dates as they aren’t as popular as Saturday. This way, they can accommodate more weddings in a year!

  • Small Ceremonies: It’s common now for couples to have a small ceremony at churches, homes, or even the courthouse. Sometimes ceremonies are even private and then guests are invited to the reception portion of the day only.

  • Split dates: the ceremony can be now, and the party can be later! Clients are still having their big, dream receptions, only a year later. This makes having an elopement or destination wedding much easier!

  • Smaller Bridal Parties: A way to cut down on expenses and day-of chaos is to downsize your bridal party. There are lots of ways you can honor your family and closest friends and have them be a part of your wedding, such as having them as ushers, read a passage during your ceremony, give speeches at dinner, or dedicate songs to them at the reception.

  • House Parties: Some couples are opting to scale down from start to finish, having a small ceremony and then a banger of a house party after!

 
How many photos in a wedding album
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Most brides have every intention of making an awesome coffee table album of their wedding photos, but the truth is, they never get around to it. (I have been married for over a decade and still have not made mine!) After your wedding, you will have SO much to do, including selling or storing decorations, getting your dress cleaned and preserved, perhaps moving in together, finding places to store the wedding gifts, not to mention those dreaded thank you cards! Perhaps most overwhleming of all is the never-ending legalities of changing your name, combining bank accounts, etc! When you're trying to settle into your newly married life and roles, time to create a photo album is a luxury many don't have. (…and then 11 years later still not having time like moi hahaha)

Enter online sites like Shutterfly. Shutterfly sells wedding albums, and they have templates to save you lots of time, and they are cheap! What’s not to love? It’s no shock that your photographer would prefer you did NOT use Shutterfly, but I take a different approach. I don’t care if you spend the extra money and have me do it, or if you save some time and do it yourself - the important part is that your photos are getting a chance to live in the real world (not just on your computer or phone!) and THAT is why we create art!

The best day of your life deserves to be showcased for years to come, and that means your wedding photos cannot just live on in your cell phone! It's so important to be able to celebrate your life together often, and showcasing an album that's beautiful and durable as part of your home decor will give you the opportunity to reminisce together in those memories over and over again. Not to mention, an album is a great heirloom to pass on to your soon-to-be growing family!

The big advantage when choosing “me or them” is first and foremost quality. It’s obviously ideal to have an album with a stunning and durable cover to compliment your home's style, one with thick pages to endure hundreds of turns, something that is weighty and durable enough to stand up to being toted back and forth to friends’ and families’ homes, and you need something with the same quality and valuable as your perfect wedding day. Quality is worth it! It’s a hard balance to not only make your album, but know exactly how many photos to put in it! The albums I design typically have 50-75 images in them.

how easy is it to design an album?

If you decide to either book a package with an album included, purchase one after your wedding through me, the entire process of designing it couldn’t be more simple. Most of my wedding couples DO get an album, and we are able to meet in person to design their dream album! I will show up to that meeting with a draft on my computer, and we will be able to go through page-by-page to swap out or delete photos you don’t want until the amount of photos and the selections are exactly what you want!

But what if you don’t live closeby? We can do the entire process mentioned above over zoom, or if you prefer, we can do it over email as it’s convenient for you! Here's a timeline of what to expect in order for us to work together to create the album of your dreams!

  1. The first draft of your album with images chosen by me will be sent to your email (or you get to see it in person at a meeting!) in about two weeks after your gallery is delivered. I use an online tool called Album Draft that makes it super easy for you to make edits and let me know which photos you would like to use instead of the ones I initially chose for your draft. This tool shows you a digital version of your album and makes it super easy for you to click each photo and make notes, such as what you want to change, etc. 

  2. We will then email requests and edits back and forth until we settle on a design you love!

  3. Final design is approved, albums ordered and shipped directly to you!

I asked Steph, the bride from the video above, to give YOU real, honest feedback about everything albums from designing it together to the album itself. Here’s what she had to say:

Q: Can you describe the process of reviewing the album and submitting changes online yourself?

A: The processing of reviewing the album is very simple and convenient. At first I thought I would have to view it only on my desktop but I tried to view it on my phone and it worked just as good! It is like viewing an actual album virtually and turning the pages like you are holding it in your hand. Submitting changes is just as simple. You just click on the picture that you would like to change/swap and make a note of what change you'd like to change.

Q; What was your overall impression of the software?

A: The software is very user friendly and high-quality.Was the software easy to use?Very easy to use! Quick, simple, and very user-friendly.

Q: How easy or hard was it to customize your album exactly the way you wanted it to be?

A: Extremely simple! There were a handful of changes that were made but they were made quickly and precisely.

Q: About how long did it take you to submit changes?

A: Only a couple of minutes.

Q: Were you happy with how fast changes were sent back to you?

A: Yes! Barely any wait time at all!

Q: Would you recommend ordering an album to future brides?

A: Absolutely! It was such a simple process and the finished product was more than perfect! The process was made easy and the finished product was exactly what I wanted and more :) I am thrilled I decided to go through the process because I have a beautiful keep sake of the best day (my wedding day) for the rest of my life!

Things Your Wedding Officiant Won't Tell You Openly
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Would you really believe me if I told you that often the wedding ceremony is the worst part of the day for most everyone involved? A lot (read, LOT) of couples don’t spend nearly enough time thinking through the significance, details, and logistics of the ceremony. I sat down with a local pastor who has officiated many weddings to ask him his real, honest opinion on why the ceremony can be the worst part of the day, things every officiant wants you to know but may not tell you, and some things that you can figure out before meeting up with him or her to make everyone’s life easier (also check out the freebie below!)

Wedding Ceremony Planning Checklist

click to download and share with your officiant!

Why do you think people don’t plan out their ceremony like the rest of their wedding day?

In comparison, the amount of money put into the ceremony is less than most any other wedding expense. People tend to treat the ceremony less valuable because there is less monetary value tied to it. With current wedding trends, there’s less emphasis on the ceremony and more emphasis on the reception and the fashion. I think some of it, too, is that people don’t have a high view of marriage anymore and don’t see it as a sacred covenant between both of you and the Lord.

What’s something you wish couples knew about planning their ceremony?

You have to actually plan it. Most people don’t really even think about it. You should definitely at least have a coordinator for the ceremony, otherwise the officiant often has to coordinate, or it ends up being someone in the wedding party or family member that does it, and often none of those people are really great at it. It’s important for you as a couple to specify the expectations on the officiant, because in cases like this it becomes much more than just conducting the ceremony.

What’s your biggest pet peeve when someone asks you to officiate?

When I don’t know the couples at all. I always urge people to be plugged into a local church or meet up with your officiant at least once before your rehearsal. If the officiant knows you, it’s easier for the ceremony to be meaningful because it can be more customized to you, your relationship, your personalities, your family, etc. If I don’t know you and I officiate your wedding, I can only bring so much to the table. In my opinion, it’s actually better to pay for a friend to become ordained online than to hire a pastor you don’t know. 

What kinds of questions do you ask couples that come to you to officiate?

First off, have a plan when you meet your officiant. Don’t put more time into thinking about the music than the actual vows. Some questions I like to ask are:

  • How long do you want the ceremony to be?

  • Do you want it to be a Christian ceremony?

  • What’s the feel? Light? Solemn? Emotional?

  • Are there special elements like communion, feet washing, candle lighting, sand ceremony, etc.?

  • Who will set the stage/altar with decor, flowers, or anything needed for special elements mentioned above? 

  • Do you want to do your own vows? Traditional vows?" “Repeat after me” vows?

  • Can the officiant write the vows for you if you don’t? 

  • Do you want to exchange rings during vows, or after?

How do you coordinate a wedding ceremony?

It’s basically coming up with answers to a bunch of logistic questions BEFORE your rehearsal such as:

  • Where are people going to enter from?

  • Who is on stage at the beginning of the ceremony?

  • Who is walking in and when?

  • Is the dad giving away the bride? Will he be down front?

  • Where do you want bridal party and family to stand? Sit?

  • Do the ring bearer or flower girl stand or sit?

  • What is the speed of professional? Is there music?

  • Is there a stage with stairs? Who is on that stage or stairs?

  • Where does bride and groom stand in relation to officiant? 

What does it mean to have a “Christian” wedding ceremony?

To me, it means that the Pastor is allowed to use the Bible and biblical terms of marriage. Some things to think about that would make it a “christian” ceremony would be”

  • Do you want an “altar call”?

  • Do you want the officiant’s message to have a “counseling” feel with advice?

  •  Do you have verses picked out?

Popular wedding ceremony verses:

  • 1 Corinthians 13

  • Ecclesiastes 4:12

  • Song of Solomon 2.10-13; 8.6,7

  • Genesis 2:24

  • Ephesians 5:22-33

  • 1 John 4:8; 18

  • John 3:16

  • Proverbs 5:18-23

  • Proverbs 31

Why is the ceremony the most important part of the day?

That’s the moment that the commitment is made. It’s way better to remember a special ceremony than to remember a special night dancing with your friends. Because we don’t put much thought into the ceremony, it it’s easy to forget the details of it years later. You can have a marriage without having a reception and a dress and flowers and rings. You can have a marriage without all of those things because it’s most importantly a covenant to one another and the Lord.

Urban Wedding Photo Location Ideas
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Sometimes wedding photo locations can be very surprising, even just the Main Street of your town can provide for some awesome photos! Here we highlight some of the great urban locations in Indiana, PA to hopefully inspire your next photo session or give you some ideas if your wedding day doesn’t have a park and trees nearby.

We started our session on a rooftop with great views of downtown, but many times accessing these locations requires special permission and permitting, so if you spot a building in your own downtown with roof access, be sure to do your homework first and contact the building owner. Another thing to note is that there is no shade on a rooftop, so if you’re shooting in the middle of the say, prepare for sunny and harsh lighting.

Other great options are business facades with fun artwork, interesting architecture, or just historical significance to you! I’ve taken beautiful wedding portraits in front of bowling alleys, in college bars, and in front of abandoned buildings. If you’re willing to be creative and open minded, you can undoubtedly have unique portraits that won’t look like any one else’s!

These particular models had been married in a small, private ceremony at a local park previously, and as they were planning for a big wedding, life had different plans and they chose to do what felt right to them and just enjoy their married life together without a big party. We ended this super fun session with a few photos at the park where they got married at for sentimental value!

These types of urban sessions would also be great for anniversary photos or senior photos! Don’t be afraid to tell your photographer about locations that are special to you - almost any place can be photographed well!

Wedding Day Disasters and How You Can Avoid Them
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Every bride fears having a wedding day disaster that they can’t fix or recover from, and I can tell you from photographing dozens of weddings a year for the past 9 years, something usually DOES go wrong, but it’s never something you can’t recover from, especially if you have a positive mindset! Here I’m sharing the “disasters” I ran into and how they were solved:

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Dress Wont Zip

Yes, I experienced the dreaded broken zipper. Luckily, it was a bridesmaid and not the bride, but the effect was still devastating. As the girls were getting ready, minutes before we needed to head upstairs to get in place for the ceremony, the maid of honors dress split wide open. We tried safety pins, but unfortunately the dress was a little tight so those didn’t hold. We tried duct tape inside the seam (more on when this DOES work!), but that didn’t hold up either. What on earth did we do?! Some blessed soul had an emergency kit with a needle and thread and we literally sewed the dress together as she was wearing it.

Lesson learned: bring a needle and thread that matches all dress colors!

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Botched Boutineers

Real talk here: boutineers are such a pain in the butt. Of course, they add elegance to the suits, match the florals that the rest of the party is carrying, but attaching them is always, ALWAYS a hassle. I’ve been to so many weddings where the groomsmen have no idea how to attach a flower to their suit with a single solitary pin without making themselves object to bloody torture. I’ve learned how to attach boutineers with my eyes closed, so I’m happy to help. Most times though, the stems are wrapped so tight, or there is wire under all that floral tape, so that the inserted pins bend, break, or stick whoever is trying to wrangle them. The solution? Ideally, talk to your florist about adding a fastener as they make/wrap the stems. Magnets don’t work, so don’t even attempt that. If you’re in need of a quick fix, have an extra box of pins handy and use two per boutineer!

Lesson learned: expect the boutineer pins to break and bring extra!

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No One’s Calling Shotgun

Little details get overlooked all the time, but when your bridal party is standing in a parking lot wondering what to do next won’t seem like such a little detail. One wedding I photographed had the girls traveling from the getting ready location to a picture spot pre-ceremony. While the bridesmaids had rides to the ceremony with family members all squared away, this quick detour left them all stranded. My second shooter and I were able to pile them all into our cars and get to the location and then back to the hotel where their rides to the ceremony could pick them up at a certain time.

Lesson learned: hire a nice photographer, and ask everyone in your bridal party to arrange a ride for themselves!

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Dirty Dress

Every bride worries about looking perfect all day long, and I usually tell my brides to anticipate some kind of dirt, stain, or mark on their dress. It’s okay. It’s going to happen. One time I had a bride DRAG her dress through the muddy ground for some portraits outside after the ceremony. When you’re in the moment, it can be tempting to just book it to the next thing, I totally understand that! This bride was an amazing sport to not be deterred by the less than idea conditions outside, but when it was time to be announced in for the reception, the dress had to be cleaned up and fast. I had some baby wipes in my camera bag from a cake smash session earlier in the week, and would you know, those wipes did wonders on getting the dirt out from the delicate lace and tulle, and covering large areas at a time for a quick clean up.

Lesson learned: bunch your dress around your knees when walking outside, and grab a pack of shout wipes for your emergency bag!

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Bustle Hassle

I love a great wedding dress train - its so classic and elegant. It’s important, though, to give it the time and attention it deserves as a major part of your wedding day wardrobe. Trains are like a member of your bridal party: they need their own space in the car, their own designated time to get ready, their own coordinator to be put in a certain place during the ceremony, and their own plan for dealing with disaster! I’m talking bustles here. Whether you do a ribbon tying method, buttons, or snaps, make sure that the final length of your gown BUSTLED is correct for the shoes your going to wear at your RECEPTION. I had several brides rip their bustles right out, and their dress material, because their dress was too long after it had been bustled and they took off their heels. What did we do? It wasn’t the prettiest thing, but duct tape inside the dress works well to keep ripped apart bustles in place. I’ve also tied ripped material together for brides so the damage would travel further up the dress.

Lesson learned: take your reception flats along to the seamstress putting in your bustle and make sure it’s high enough and secure! Also take someone in your family or bridal party along to learn how to work the bustle system put in your dress!

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Bouquet to No One

There’s nothing more awkward that chucking you bouquet behind you to all the single ladies - and then NO ONE wants to catch it and it just flops on the floor. Yep it’s happened so many times. Unless your bridal party is full of gals and guys that are single, you may seriously want to reconsider this tradition. More and more brides are opting NOT to do the bouquet toss because it seems a little mean-spirited to parade your single friends around, and it usually ends up awkward.

Lesson Learned: Unless you have bridesmaids that are single and PUMPED for the bouquet toss, you may want to toss the toss.

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No Wifi - So What?

I’m sure you know that DJ’s don’t cart around CD’s and records anymore to their gigs, but did you know that a lot of them rely on STREAMING music into your event? That means wifi! I’ve been to a few weddings and heard HORROR stories from people as well where the DJ didn’t have wifi and have nothing to play for the wedding, or was missing key songs because they didn’t have them in their library! What did they do? At one wedding, a bridesmaid ended up hooking up her phone to the DJ right through an aux cord and played the needed songs as she treated from youtube with her cellular data.

Lesson learned: ask your DJ if they need wifi capability in your vendor meetings, and ask your venue if they have it!

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Rain on Your Wedding Day

It might not be the most appropriate song to play at your reception, but rain on your wedding day ISN’T the disaster that some make it out to be. I’ve photographed a few weddings in the rain, and if the forecast is calling for showers a week out, I have had that conversation with my brides and made a contingency plan. When the location and aesthetic is right, we have used covered bridges, we have also used umbrellas for some bridal party shots if there are enough to go around! Finding a covered staircase or entryway is also a great option for group portraits in the rain. Some of the most beautiful and dramatic bride and groom portraits can be taken in the rain when the lighting is dark outside, so don’t get too sad about some drizzle!

Lesson learned: check the forecast, plan alternate photo locations that are covered, buy umbrellas for everyone, and trust your photographer!